CHURCH IN 2020

PASTOR: Praise the Lord.

CONGREGATION: Halleluiah!

PASTOR: Can we please turn our
tablet, PC, iPad, cellphone, kindle bibles to 1 Cor. 13:13….! And please switch on your Bluetooth to download the sermon…. !

PASTOR: Let us pray committing this week into God’s hands. Open your WhatsApp, BBM, Twitter and Facebook and chat with your God. Come on…

PASTOR: Please have your credit and debit cards ready as we shall now take tithes and offerings. You can log on to the church Wi-Fi using the password Lord909887.

[Ushers circulate mobile card swipe machines among the worshipers. Those who prefer to make electronic funds transfers are directed to computers and laptops at the rear
of the church and those who prefer to use iPads allowed to flip them open. Those who prefer telephone banking
are allowed to take out their cellphones to transfer their contributions to the church bank
account!]

The holy atmosphere is truly electric as the cellphones , iPads, PCs and laptops
beep and flicker!

[Announcement]

SECRETARY: This week’s cell meetings shall be held on the various Facebook
group pages where the usual group chatting takes place and mix-it for Sunday school pupil. Please. don’t miss out. Thursday’s bible teachings will be held live on Skype at 1900hrs GMT. Please don’t missout. You
can follow Pastor on Twitter this
weekend for counselling
and prayers, don?t forget our
weekly sermon uploads on YouTube .
God bless you and have a
wonderful Sunday.

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14 Tips For Talking To Men And Attracting Them Like Crazy

Most women dream of the day they will attract the man of their dreams.

Many describe a man who is “tall, dark, handsome, (preferably) rich, sensitive, loves kids, has an advanced degree and loves his mom.”

“I’ve described this same man, listened to my friends describe men of similar ilk and pondered, plotted and schemed about how to meet this mystery man”, said my friend, Natalie.

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Here, after watching (and experiencing) numerous disappointments on the dating scene, are my top tips for attracting the man of your dreams:

1. Be Indifferent

Men hate desperate women. The only thing they hate more than desperate women are those who are only attracted to them because they embody the above-mentioned traits.

Men find women attractive who are not only unimpressed with their wealth and good looks, but treat them as if they are just some average Joe. Men love a challenge.

Don’t you dare let them tell you anything different. Sure, let them have your number and even be nice to them, but just because they call doesn’t mean you have to always be available.

Don’t play hard to get, be hard to get. 🙂

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2. Be Fabulous

When you finally allow your mystery man the pleasure of your company, be fabulous.

Be well-dressed, polite, polished, erudite and sophisticated. You don’t need anyone to save you, for heaven’s sake, you need someone to appreciate all that you are.

Do you think a man is more likely to appreciate you if you are dressed in yesterday’s sweats or if you are dressed in today’s fabulously attractive evening gown, the perfect pair of jeans or the best accessories you can afford?

You don’t have to make a lot of money, but you should look like you are well worth every penny you spent.

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3. Be Mysterious

Don’t tell him every little thing about you on the first date or on the first two to three dates.

As a matter of fact, you never need to tell him everything. Believe me, he is not interested in why or how your ex-boyfriend mistreated you, how much you hate your co-worker or the digestive problems of your precious Fee-fee.

He is interested in you. In the adventure of knowing you. In the excitement of uncovering you (figuratively of course) all for himself.

You can and should confide in him as time goes by, but for heaven’s sake, let some time go by before you start revealing your deepest secrets.

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4. Be Open

Having said the previous about being mysterious, you still want to be as open and honest about who you are and what you stand for.

A man usually wants to know you have an opinion (though he’s not always interested in you sharing it with him).

Most men have a lot of respect for women who know their own minds and I’m sure you know yours. Know when to speak and when to let his remarks roll right over you.

Everything he says does not merit a lengthy response when a simple yes or no will do. You should never, however, lie to your dream guy or mislead him about some significant event in your life.

For example, if he asks you if you have ever been married, it’s okay to say yes, but it’s not okay to immediately give him the details of your last three failed unions.

He’ll find that out soon enough if he sticks around long enough to get to know you.

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5. Be Yourself

It’s important as you get to know this man that you are not a carbon-copy of Paris Hilton, Angelina Jolie or Michelle Pfieffer. You are you – wonderful, unique, incredible you. And if that’s not good enough for him, then he is not good enough for you.

Believe me, you don’t want to start the relationship being someone else, because then you’ll have to live up to it at a later time.

By being yourself and fully unique, you’ll present him with the opportunity to fully appreciate you for the person you truly are. You are worth it.

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6. Smile often

The next time you’re talking to a guy you like, smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular reason and bring that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it shows. And no guy can resist a girl with a beautiful laugh!

7. Be coy and graceful

Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men, and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy.

Even to this day, guys love coy, graceful girls. So be that one. Twiddle your hair when you’re being thoughtful, have your own cute expressions, bat your twice instead of just once every time you close your eyes.

All these make you very lovable and aww-sho-cute! Learn to be a lady, and the guys will love to become your knight in shining armor.

8. Touch him

Men have always been drawn to the gentle, tender touch of a girl. Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more with girls who touch them in the middle of a conversation.

Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow in no time.

9. Seek his protection

Throughout evolution, men have always been the hunters and the protectors while women have been the farmers and the foragers.

When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate it and love it.

Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask him if he can hold a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a big, scary dog comes near you, etc.

You know the works, make him feel like your protector. And he’ll want to be by your side all the time.

10. Don’t badmouth or bitch

Girls who are use foul language all the time are quite a bit of a turn off for most guys.

Now if you’re Debra Morgan, that’s a whole new story because she knows how to be vulnerable, cry and be strong and independent at the same time. But for all other girls, try to avoid using bad language all the time.

Additionally, don’t bitch about other girls or speak nastily about coworkers and passersby when you’re walking on a street.

11. Be mischievous

There’s nothing better than a girl who can be shy and coy, and show off a streak of mischievousness now and then.

It’s always nice to lighten things up now and then with a few pranks. You can tease him, nudge him by the shoulder, say a few jokes, or all of the above.

Guys like a girl who is all sweet is cute and nice, but it can get pretty boring after a while. Show him your naughty side too.

12. Be polite

This is one of the qualities of a good natured, sweet girl that all guys want. If you want to know how to talk to a guy, keep this in mind.

Be nice, good natured and polite. Mind your P’s and Q’s, and be nice, not just to him, but to the people around you.

You can try to be pretentious and fake when you’re with him, but then, it’s not easy. Instead, learn to be a genuinely nice person and it’ll only make him want you more.

13. Appreciate him

If you use all the tips mentioned here, you’ll be a very likeable girl who’ll be desired by all guys.

And the guy who likes you may try very hard to please you and impress you. And if some guy’s trying to make you feel nice, appreciate the gesture.

Most girls take these things for granted, and over time, the guys will stop paying attention to them.

Really now, if someone does something nice for you, don’t you think they deserve a thank you, or at least a smile? Never forget that.

14. Play hard to get

Always play hard to get if you want to make him like you. Knowing how to talk to a guy is easy, but knowing where to draw the line is not.

Speak to guys in a pleasant manner, but never let them take you for granted. And don’t ever be easily available. That only makes them take you lightly.

Conclusion

Use these fifteen tips on how to talk to a guy and make him like you, and you’ll see how likeable and desired you’ll be in no time!

Over to you.

Girls! Do you resonate with this post? Have I been able to teach you what you need to attract that man in your dream? If yes, why not go ahead and tell me what you learn and how you now feel after knowing all these 14 lifetime secrets. 🙂

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3 Steps To Make a Man Love You

Let’s face it — there is no foolproof way to get every man to fall madly in love with you.

Or is there?… Almost ALL men have the same needs when it comes to looking for the right woman, so there are ways of catching the eye of almost any man.

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  • Would you like to turn the head of any man?
  • Attract that man you’ve had your eye on for a while?
  • Or just want to take your current relationship to adeeper level?

Find the ANSWER in this video by relationship author,Michael Fiore.  In this video, he reveals to you the same three, life-changing steps he’s taught to thousands of women around the world so you can quickly and easily get the man of your dreams.

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True Leaders to Respect Today

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What does the word “leader” mean to you? I have been wondering for a long time, many years ago about that meaning as well!

I realized that no matter the area of discussion there are always people that lead and there are people looking for leaders to be guided. And this is perfectly OK!

I have been thinking and talking about this topic for many years with many of my friends and colleagues in different countries. Today I personally believe that leaders are born not made!

Why do I think that way? Because leadership from a true leader flows easily with no effort while others try to be there and show up as leaders never achieving reaching the goal, as the ones in the first group do. This can be perceived by all of us!

If you did not think about this topic yet, don´t worry, I will share with you through this article, discoveries from life experiences, you may also have had, that will let you understand my words and what I just said!

Enjoy and share your comments I would like to hear from you about this topic, because you may still be “a leader in the closet” or a “hidden leader” and I want to support you when coming out of the closet, to be discovered and inspire the world with your gift and message to make this world a better place to live for all of us, our children and grand children to come!

A leader is defined in http://www.thefreedictionary.com/leader as

1- One that leads or guides.

2. One who is in charge or in command of others.

Still this definition does not give me the feeling I want to experience from a true leader I can trust!

And in the http://oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/leader  it is defined asthe person who leads or commands a group, organization, or country”

And again I do not feel the essence of the true leader. This happens because it is really difficult to express that “essence” with words.

I noticed there is a language from where Leaders know who they are and recognize themselves from far away! But it is not the language we talk daily. It is an attitude and body language they have, coming from their inside out; it is about their own energy, commitment and engagement with any situation they face as human beings. This can be expressed as their own “personal power” and what helps and lets them be seen as true and authentic leaders!

How do others recognize them? How will you truly differentiate a leader from someone that is not one? Is it by a feeling? Is it by a visual feature? What exactly is that secret ingredient they have built inside that flows from their inside out so easy for them to be recognized as authentic true leaders?

We are used to think of a leader regarding his look from the outside; still a leader shines from his inside out as a new flower in spring with perfume, color, texture and glamour. It is impossible not to perceive it or sense it and there is always a subtle energetic connection generated between a true leader and his followers. Like a magic wand in action touching your heart with love and compassion!

At the beginning leaders are afraid to show they are, since it is a process they go through to first recognize themselves as leaders to then step into their own power to deliver the message they came to share with their “tribe” and community.

Leadership, as many other skills in the baggage of a human being, can only be expressed after going through a process in life, along the Journey; to find the missing link that will help the leader understand his purpose as a true leader.

Leaders do not walk on the street with a tag saying “I am a LEADER”. There are easy tools you can use to discover them. I will share with you some of these easy tools that will help you recognize a leader when you find one you want to follow.

Easy to use TOOLS to discover a true Leader

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1- Be aware because leaders are everywhere!

Leaders have a special way of connecting with people. They always want to help and bring wealth to the community around them. They feel compelled to do it as part of their call as leaders. So do not misunderstand this attitude, next time you see someone like that!

2- Feel their Power

How do you feel the power of a Leader? You feel it through the positive energy he delivers when he is around you. He is proactive and knows how to make things happen every time. He knows how to find the road to follow and looks for alternative roads where others would say “this is impossible”. He does not see obstacles, focus on results and will do whatever it takes to achieve them for his “tribe” and community. Sometimes people may feel overwhelmed by this attitude; step back and check out if he might be the next leader you want to follow.

3- Understand the needs of a Leader

A leader is a passionate human being that wants to deliver his message, transmit and share his passion all the time. This is the reason why he is proactive and wants to give and help people around him to bring the results they look for and want. He is always ready to help and be of service! Next time you see this attitude ask him why he is doing that! You may be blown away by his answer! Listen and let him tell you about his dreams! You may be a follower supporting his movement soon!

4- The leader is very organized and never forgets!

A true leader knows what he wants and is very clear about how he will achieve his goals. He always has a plan and a strategy knowing who can help him with something he might need to delegate. He never forgets a bullet point he wrote in his plan and will always achieve his plan by one road or another. For a leader, life is about the tribe and community and he is on service for them. Listen to his message and you will discover his plan!

5- The Leader loves to teach, to guide and to mentor

A true leader loves to be proactive, shows up, guides and mentors his followers and will always bring them up. He believes there is a solution for every problem, that can be found and collaboration is part of the success for things to happen. He knows how to spread the virus of positivism around and will always show the road to follow as a member of the group working with them for them. This is his way of leading, as a member of the tribe! You can easily check this out if you are a member of his group. He leads by giving the example and is always ready to support the members of the tribe!

6- A leader defends his values

For a true leader it is very important to live leadership every moment of his life. He will definitely feel terrible if he discovers there are values of his own not respected. He will never negotiate about values; this is for him the “core” of leadership expression and his mission as a true leader to be trusted by his followers. I recommend you to check out the values of the leader you want to follow to evaluate if they are aligned with your values! You would not want to follow someone that will not defend your own values!

7- Vulnerability of a true Leader

There is still a very important piece of this puzzle to be mentioned. A true Leader is as vulnerable as any other human being. He needs to know he is not alone. Even if he may be able to do many things by himself, the fuel for him to leadership and deliver his message, is to feel rewarded feeling the happiness and satisfaction of the members of the tribe, understanding he is bringing wealth to the community as a result of being their true and authentic leader!

If reading this article you felt you are a True Leader, do not be afraid, and enjoy the discovery! It means you are ready to begin the process and step into your leadership. It is time to become the leader you were born to be!

You will begin the journey by discovering your Purpose, your Mission and your Vision, integrating it with your Passion.

I wish you much success and all the best delivering your gift!  I am sure you are here to succeed!

With love light gratitude and abundance to all!

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Wife Throwing Her Husband Out of the House

It was 30 years, 30 years of the best time of my life, 30 years of being married to the best and most beautiful woman in the whole wide world, it was our 30th wedding anniversary last week. I planned a big surprise for “my precious”. It’s simple, go on my knees for the second time in the same restaurant I did 31 years ago, confessing and reaffirming my undying love for her. In a covered plate pre-arranged with the waiter will be the key to a brand new BMW x7. You have to understand that the money is not the problem, I am. One thing led to another and all I could manage on our anniversary eve was a fatigued “I love you” to my darling wife who was half asleep. I wonder how classic it would have been if I was able to pull-off the plan…

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